I once heard relationships described like this: “everyone has their own canoe and as much as you want to tell others how to steer - especially away from what you think is trouble - it’s not your canoe to steer. Stay in your canoe!”
I know this perspective can’t be applied to all situations, however, it is an interesting thought. I have to remind myself sometimes to pay attention to my own canoe! Do you have a hard time seeing others canoeing a different way?